Jimi Tewe, a popular Nigerian motivational speaker, and CEO of Inspiro Consulting (a Career Services and Human Resource Consulting firm) took to his Instagram page to write a letter to his daughter.
The career success catalyst advised his daughter to choose a man that is willing to make sacrifices for the love he processes.
” Jimi tewe
Dear Daughter,
So sorry dad has been very busy.
I got your message asking me about your thoughts on the guy you have been considering for marriage.
The first thing I want to ask is this; did you say he hardly calls you or checks up on you? Did you say that his excuse for doing this is that he has been very busy? I thought you said you have been dating him for over a year.
Has this been going on for this long? I thought you told me he loves you.
I don’t understand.
Whatever matters to a man has his attention. When a man finds something he truly desires his faculties aid him to get it.
When he is quick to make excuses and is not willing to make sacrifices for a love he professes, I doubt if he does love you.
A man must be in love with both your essence and your presence before he is given a license to forever existence.
He says he is shy; he is withdrawn; an introvert but he is very extroverted when premiership begins or when he gets a new toy.
Dear daughter, a man must recognize your value before he is given approval to draw value from you.
You are a jewel of inestimable value. Jewels are hidden for a reason – only those who truly desire them find them.
I know good men are hard to find .. But.. Trust me, a woman who embraces her essence and presence and radiates confident beauty will eventually be found by a man who deserves her.
Stop dating a project. You deserve a good man.
Dad loves you and prays for you. You will not just be married, you will be happily married!
You are your #Fathersgirl.”
